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I have a pair of sandals.  The right one squeaks.  I have no idea why.  It's the MOST IRRITATING THING ON THE PLANET.  And yet I keep wearing them, because I love them. 

TOTALLY NOT FAIR! You have to spell it out without writing it down!

Signed, Former City Spelling Bee Champ, 1987.

I have this bag. I feel you on the center pocket, though it holds an ipad perfectly.

Send them the bag. Might as well try!

For me, threatening to have someone fired, claiming to have done so in the past, and specifically telling them this is a warning to them?  That's fucking frightening to me.  If you told me you were going to pop me in the face, I'd laugh at you and be all YOU HAVE TO CATCH ME FIRST. 

I am upset about the nature of the threats.  I think kirkette had valid points, and I think booby probably poked her too hard in too sensitive a place.  I am on neither one's real side here; but specific, pinpointed threats against someone are not okay in my book, regardless of who writes them.  

I AM shocked when people threaten others IRL.  I was shocked when it happened to Stumpy.  I was shocked when amoosed outed pagas's name.  I am shocked just about every time it happens, because it's such a boundary cross for me that I can't conceive of doing it to anyone else. 

I get that Kirkette was and is angry, and I think she has a right to be where booby is concerned.  I am not down with threatening someone's livelihood and thus family offline, or talking about ruining someone's life offline.  

I'm here.  Threatening, to me, is enough.  I don't care to debate the merits of whether or not she really can or would follow through.  The plain fact is, people HAVE followed through on that shit around here, and I am absolutely not here for a board that sits back and is all, "Well, she deserved it; she was a bit of a cunt in that thread."

Not putting up with foolishness is one thing. Threats of off-board retaliation, in real life, are another thing entirely for me.

Ours too.  I work at a law firm.  And it's terrifying every single fucking time. 

Ohhhhh I want this.

Also, what the fuck??

I said those words about being fired, or going to jail because I'm sending you a message.

This t-shirt from Anine Bing



More Texas Tea spray -- it's the best-smelling stuff ever ever ever.



Anthro cardigan on sale

Go to the doctor! Can you go on your lunch hour and see if they can fit you in? I'm sorry you feel so bad.

Generally I really like you, but this is a bit bizarre coming from someone who nonchalantly said they pull strings to dispose of people through prosecution, firing, jail.  I found that a little chilling, honestly.  I don't see @pilotgrigio being genuinely threatening in any manner, even if she is going after you on the boards.

papie, I love this dress! Where is it from??