I fall between 5-7. It's a lot of things. We started dating really young. At this point I think I have changed and he is basically the 18 year old kid I started dating. There isn't anything wrong with either of us but we just don't have a ton in common anymore. We also have had financial difficulties for the past 4 1/2 years which has really taken its toll on us.
I thought that the type of love you find in a book was just fiction but after hearing real stories from people here, I know it does exist and it makes me feel cheated.
Sorry.
I really do think it only exists for certain personality types. Like, I could probably never feel that way long-term. Maybe early on, before I actually had to live with the person. lol
I've also been where you are, and we've kind of come back around to being in a similar place again. I've lightened up some, and H has matured some.
So true! I think I'm meant to live alone ( plus my girls).