Post by iluvmytxrgr on Mar 21, 2013 8:07:25 GMT -5
Our Congressman is a friend of the family. I should be able to work out meetings with him for recommendations. Right now, he runs track and plays on his school golf team. There are only 4 boys on the team, two 9th graders and two eighth graders. Because he's one of the older boys, they've named them co-captains. He should get a letter in golf this year as it's a varsity team. He chose study hall instead of a club this year. I was fairly ticked. I told him colleges, especially Academies, don't want to see study hall on your transcripts. They want to see you involved in clubs and such. I've talked to his advisory teachers and he'll not have study hall as an option any more. He's actually talking to his Physics teacher about starting a Physics or robotics club. He's really excited about that. His school is one of the top in the state. It's a prep school, but they only have AP and IB classes. You start high school credit classes in 7th grade. They also require every HS student to have 40 volunteer hours every year. His hours have been from a local rescue I work with, church, The American Legion and the Military Order of the Purple Heart. I've think he's got a good start, he just needs to come out of his shell a bit and put himself out there for leadership roles. I'm hoping I can find him a good mentor to talk to so he can stay motivated. Thanks for all of your help. Beans, I may take you up on speaking to your H. I honestly think the AF Academy may be a better choice for him, based on his personality and interests. He's just from a very proud Army family.
Post by iluvmytxrgr on Mar 20, 2013 15:32:49 GMT -5
My 9th grader has talked about it before, but he's definitely decided he wants to go to West Point. I've explained how competitive it is and how hard he will have to work to stand out among every one else. I think he just needs to hear from people who aren't his mom. If any of you are graduates or are married to a graduate, I'd love if you can give me some tips or things you wish you'd known to pass onto him. He's a smart kid. He runs track and plays on the school golf team. He's in AP and IB classes at school. Right now, his grades range from high B's to 99%.
Exciting summer plans? Hopefully, I'll be getting a weekend getaway with my husband. Other than that, we are planning several camping trips on weekends I don't have weddings scheduled.
Anything special coming up? a window should be opening sometime soon.
If you work, how's that? Lots of weddings.
Moms, how are you? How is LO? Kids are great. My oldest has his first golf tourney in a few days
Any vents/letters/confessions/whatevers post them here
Post by iluvmytxrgr on Mar 15, 2013 14:52:21 GMT -5
My husband used to be bad about putting things like that onto my plate. I don't mind helping him if duty calls and he just can't help it. However, if it's something he's procrastinated on, he's shit out of luck. If I hadn't nipped it in the bud, he would have continued to do it. If I were you, I'd go ahead and help out but let him know you are his wife, not his errand girl. That's just me, though.
And why do people have to be so stupid? Shooting any kind of gun, bb or toy or otherwise, in such a busy area is insane. As is trying to lie about who shot you.
Well, his first stories of what happened were lying about who shot him. Then the info started popping up on the net. Then the stories changed several times. There were arguments about if he was an idiot or a war hero. One family member started posting links onto the FB pages of news reporters. The family was pissed and went off. Then she blamed it on her son. Now she blames it on her daughter in law for blabbing about the posts. It's just a huge mess.
Post by iluvmytxrgr on Mar 5, 2013 16:57:41 GMT -5
Goodness. I know this is scary for you. I've been in a similar situation. When he gets to what ever hospital he is headed to, his CoC will still be contacting them for updates. If he is not able to call you, they should be able to keep you updated to what is going on. When my husband was hurt, I was told I would only be able to go to him if he was going to be there for more than 7 days. I'm not sure if that is still true, but I would check into it. The Ombudsman should be able to give you that information. Hang in there.
Post by iluvmytxrgr on Feb 12, 2013 20:04:46 GMT -5
We've stayed at Smokey Mountain Rentals a few times. We've always had great results with them.
If you like out door activities, make sure you visit Cade's Cove. We always pack a lunch. There are a few waterfalls you can stop and hike to. There are several historic churches and cemeteries, as well as cabins. Every time we've been, we've seen all sorts or wildlife to include bear, deer, turkeys and other animals. It's one of our favorite things to do. I also recommend a white water rafting trip. Dollywood is a blast. There are several great roller-coasters and water rides. The Ripley's Aquarium is pretty nice. Honestly, you could stay there for two weeks and not run out of things to do.
That's great. I know a lot of people have issues dealing with overbearing or controlling older siblings. Sometimes, it just takes standing up to them and letting them know you won't take their crap any more for them to step back and see you aren't the little kid that will willingly take their abuse. Wow, that was a long sentence. Good luck!!
Post by iluvmytxrgr on Feb 6, 2013 12:19:50 GMT -5
I would just ask MIL not to share any information with ANYONE until after the procedure. Just tell her you don't want everyone making a big deal out of it or calling at inconvenient times to check in. You'll update anyone who needs to know after DS is settled.
It could be anything. I've seen spouses called in for anything from the SM receiving a big award to an ass chewing because the SM is frequently late to issues with finances. Your husband should have some idea of why his Shirt would want to see the two of you.
Post by iluvmytxrgr on Jan 22, 2013 9:01:04 GMT -5
Savannah/Tybee Island would be great for your family. There are plenty of child friendly activities. I'd recommend staying on the northern end of the island. It is a bit more quiet. I also recommend renting bikes and a bike trailer for your daughter while there. It is a very bike friendly town with paths all over the island.
Post by iluvmytxrgr on Jan 22, 2013 8:49:53 GMT -5
So, the couple will have over $6K in income from pensions plus they are planning to work after retirement. If it were me, I would try to live as sensibly as possible. With no kids, there is really no need to have a home with more than 2 bed rooms. I would rent a modest home, live off the $6K a month, use the other incomes to pay off debt and then start banking it after the loans are history.
You really should save as much as possible even if you are getting a pension. Had my grandparents not worked so hard to build a nice savings after my grandpa retired from the Army, they would be screwed right now. With the medical issues they have both had, they have no choice but to pay for supplemental insurance. They still have medical bills on top of what their insurances pay. Add unexpected issues with their cars and their house and they would have been screwed with out that savings. I agree with the suggestions that you talk to a financial planner. They can help you figure out the best way for you to save or invest. They can help you come up with a plan to follow.
Post by iluvmytxrgr on Jan 18, 2013 8:58:22 GMT -5
Since he is the direct supervisor, I'd say it's time to add others to the group. It would be best if y'all went out with a group of couples instead of just the four of you. I don't really think it's an issue until people start saying there is favoritism.
Post by iluvmytxrgr on Jan 8, 2013 17:35:55 GMT -5
If the person in actually in the lane, they have the right of way. If the person in pulling through spots as if it were a road, that's tricky. It could go either way. However, it is more than likely the person acting as if the parking spots are a road who is in the wrong.