Post by caffeinebean on Jun 4, 2012 9:38:45 GMT -5
BF and I got a kitty this week. She's pretty awesome. She's a 15 year old siamese/lynx mix and only weighs 4 lbs. I'm in love. She hates our dogs though.
And BF was offered a job over the weekend. They pay would be almost double what he's making now, but the hours are going to suck. Now he works M-F 7:00 - 5:00. With the new job he'd be likely to be working 3:00 - midnight and weekends.
Post by caffeinebean on May 31, 2012 16:42:08 GMT -5
Opiate withdrawals is one of the most horrible things to go through. I was prescribed it after a surgery and then kept on it for a few years. I finally had to use suboxone to get off.
The physical symptoms are restless leg, headaches, nausea, diarrhea, body aches and restlessness.
Keep an eye out for depression and anxiety. And make sure his doctor knows his exact dosage. That's very, very important.
Post by caffeinebean on May 30, 2012 12:52:14 GMT -5
FMIL - Is it really so unexpected, that after years of emotional abuse and manipulation, that your son wants nothing to do with you? Why're you acting so shocked and blaming everyone but yourself?
Handsome Furs - Serve the People Fleet Foxes - Lorelai, Helplessness Blues The Head and the Heart - Lost in my Mind, Down in the Valley Dale Earnhardt Jr. Jr. - Vocal Chords Middle Brother - Blue Eyes Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros - Home He is also "Alexander" - Million Years
You've got awesome taste in music.
Iron and Wine - Boy With a Coin Fleet Foxes - Helplessness Blues Band of Horses - Laredo Sea Wolf - Middle Distance Runner, The Violet Hour Feist - 1,2,3,4 Silversun Pickups - Bloody Mary Modest Mouse - all Tilly and the Whale - Alligator Skin
Post by caffeinebean on May 29, 2012 18:06:22 GMT -5
Yay Hoobs!
This young couple ( maybe 17, 18) just got into a ridiculous screaming match at the complex pool. Which is right outside my apartment. There were a whole lot of 'fuck you' and 'you're a crazy bitch'. And when she turned around to leave he grabbed her arm and she slapped him and took off.
It was crazy uncomfortable and when he saw me on the balcony he told me to fuck off. I'm kind of at a loss.
Post by caffeinebean on May 29, 2012 15:20:50 GMT -5
You and your son need to run far and fast from this dick. You need get lots of therapy and not date for a very, very long time. Figure out who you are, as an individual.
Post by caffeinebean on May 28, 2012 12:52:23 GMT -5
I went in for a few hours, but it was so slow that I went home. BF gets holiday pay and doesn't have to work a full shift, which is nice because he usually works 7-6.
I'm much more likely to spew obscenities when I'm playing video games, but DH is odd in his own right. Whenever he gets really into a game he'll slowly move closer and closer to the tv until he's standing 6 inches in front of it. Then he'll start leaning or ducking slightly whenever his character does.
This is BF and I. I curse like a sailor when I play video games. I have a series of pictures of BF progressively inching closer to the tv with a look of pure concentration on his face. It's great.
Post by caffeinebean on May 25, 2012 21:07:52 GMT -5
I talked to the HR rep and she told me that my bosses evaluation surveys are being processed now.
I love my job, but upper management is seriously fucking it up. Another supervisor of mine told me to email her over the weekend with dates and whatnot and to cc our HR rep.
She's going on vacation for a week so at least I get a small reprieve.
Post by caffeinebean on May 25, 2012 18:27:12 GMT -5
She really is, dude.
I love my job. I love the people I work with and the clients I see on a regular basis. But my boss makes me want to die. The fact that I have to interact with her daily is starting to affect my life outside of work.
Post by caffeinebean on May 25, 2012 18:20:54 GMT -5
Guys, my boss is horrible. She is probably one of the most horrible people I have ever met. She's rude, obnoxious, and constantly invades my space.
Last week she kept poking me. I was on the phone with a client and had another client in front of me, but she needed something right.this.second! She she pokes me like 3 times and when I don't respond she kicked my chair. I put my client on hold and told her not to touch me and if she would either wait, email, or drop a note in my mailbox about what she needed done that I would get to it right away.
She is not allowed in my desk space, because I have cash behind the desk, yet she's constantly back there dicking around!
This is mostly a vent, but how does ML deal with a terrible boss?
I'd be proud of my kid if she figured out how to PIP from a mac onto FB. H and I are more worried about if our kids aren't nerds. What if they like sports? /me shudders
Haha this is me too. BF and I are huge nerds. He's a science loving violinist and I'm the biggest book worm ever. Neither of us are sports people at all.
Post by caffeinebean on May 23, 2012 10:15:18 GMT -5
I had a reduction and a lift a few years ago. My breasts were freaking HUGE, it was bad.
The downtime for me was 3 weeks. It hurt pretty bad, but by day three I was up and walking around. The worst part of it was the feeling of pressure on my chest. I took my pain meds as prescribed and it was pretty much smooth sailing.
Honestly, it helped so much with my self esteem. My boobs are awesome now
Stop overreacting to minor frustrations. Although he has improved upon this a lot once I learned that mocking him was not the way to make him realize he was being ridiculous.
Are we dating the same guy? This sounds just like my BF. And this is the one thing I would change.
Post by caffeinebean on May 21, 2012 11:22:07 GMT -5
I'm really glad it went well, I was thinking about you this weekend.
BF is is a lot like you, and I get super panic-y like Nigel. So I understand a teeny tiny bit of what you're going through. Also, I think it's great that you guys didn't talk about everything at once. It gives you a few days to digest the issues you did bring up and work up to the others. And yay for sleeping in the same bed!
Post by caffeinebean on May 20, 2012 18:11:58 GMT -5
Yeah, I filed a police report. The cop was a dick about it though.
We don't live in a terrible area, but we are moving. This was just the last straw. Plus, I'm so over apartment living. Our complex management is a bunch of cock gobblers.
And honestly I'm pretty sure our little assface neighbor kid did this.