While I have failed a few times while fostering, what helps me from keeping them all is remembering that if I get my foster adopted, I can rescue another. It's always bittersweet to let one go, but knowing I'll be able to save another makes it 100% worth it.
21 was the year of the most change. I lost weight & became more confident for the first time in my life. I had a blast. I also had a lot of struggles. So transformative.
Really, my 30s have been awesome. I still feel 22, but without the existential angst. I've realized that nobody has shit figured out; might as well have fun.
Also, I am FAR less likely to open a post with a vague subject line. If someone posts "Does anybody know about..." without including the subject, I don't open out of spite. It's usually something absurdly specific. They'd get more responses if they put the subject up front.
Kore Do you enjoy giving BJs almost every day? Or is it just something you do for him? Who initiates them, or is it just part of a routine at this point? Feel free to tell me to delete/shove off.
I do enjoy it. He typically initiates. Or I will because I can tell he's in the mood.
I can't explain it in a way that makes sense, because it doesn't. It's not something that happened overnight (the sex thing). It's been on a downward trend for years.
I originally thought you weren't having sex because I assumed he had an ED.
But if he can get erect, why aren't you doing the deed?
Feel free to tell me to piss up a rope/delete this.
It's a combo of lack of confidence, strong BJ preference, and laziness. We've talked it to death. It turns me off a lot to know that he's not super into sex. That he's doing it for my benefit. So I don't even push for it anymore.
We did have actual p-in-v sex twice last week. Not for long, but it's a start.