Post by montereybride on Aug 5, 2013 18:54:13 GMT -5
I'm legit lol @ black people meeting
/whispers can I still play if I'm white? I just have a lot of feelings about hair
Your lineup looks good but I will reiterate the following - no lather, no silicones, no parabens, no pthalates, no towels, no combs, and no brushes.
I unfortunately only know about Deva products because that's what my bestie uses. I will say that her hair is gorgeous. Also, go to someone who is specifically Deva-trained. They know curls. Like, whoa.
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Thank you for your patience!
How about this new twist.. PB keeps closing and sending me back to my iPhone's main screen.
Because lunch and learn is just fine... and because I am happy about the gender neutral language law in WA state so I'll be a happy follower.Â
I can't believe I could be looking into a future where inanimate objects can't be identified by color. Â And I'm sure that in twenty years my even questioning this will be regretful because shudder we used to identify objects by color and I will have realized how insensitive I was being.Â
Somebody draw a line, a non-changing static line.Â
I think you're missing the point.
The point is that the specific shade of a brown bag was used to determine if someone of African descent was pale enough to be allowed in to a public event during the height of segregation. The question would be "Does he/she pass the brown bag test?"
It has nothing to do with referring to an object by its color. It's the association of the object itself with racism.
how do you like it? is it weird? can you imagine how it's going to feel in the shower?? lol i feel so giddy for you.
i would kill for those lips.
It was so weird in the shower!! I'm going to have to buy a lot more headbands.  It feels so dry, I don't know if I should be conditioning everyday or only on wash days, or what.
LOVE the cut!
Now, to love your natural hair... Stop using shampoo that lathers, towels, and combs/brushes.
Switch to co-wash only. Avoid anything with silicones, phthalates, and parabens. Use a tshirt to gently am squire out water. Put any and all product in when your hair is drenched. Use a cold water rinse.
Post by montereybride on Aug 4, 2013 1:25:06 GMT -5
I would move heaven and earth for my BFF.
There is nothing she could do that would make me not love her or not want to be her friend. Well, short of fucking my H. And even then, there's days I love her more than him.
I just really don't care about my friends' sexual behaviors. Those behaviors have zero bearing on me and my life.
Yes, you are definitely justified. Â And not for reasons of moral righteousness. Â Buying BIL a car is not what he needs. Â He needs a bigger, better rehab place or an extended rehab place (talking out of my ass a bit here) but something to address his alcohol and drug problems. Â A hot new car is just a prize that conveys "you're all right and kind of a bad ass so keep it up". Â I don't care who you are, you've got to think you're a-ok if somebody buys you a car like that.
I'm so sorry elle. Â I hope your BIL makes it out of this with a life he can accept.
No.
He needs to be allowed to fail. He needs to stop being rescued. He needs to hit bottom - HARD. And he needs to want to get sober.
He has no reason to get and stay sober while he is being enabled and while all of his problems are being fixed.
Post by montereybride on Aug 4, 2013 0:57:25 GMT -5
The whole thing is shitty, dude. All of it.
Your FIL is allowed to mismanage his money, your BIL's money that he controls, and whatever else.
The enabling will likely end up killing your BIL.
You have to let it go, though. You can only control the info you give your FIL, not the info your H gives him. Although, I think it's outrageous that your H is not playing for your team. The only way your FIL will stop commenting on your life is if he no longer has access to info about your life. I know you get this. I'm annoyed for you that your H won't do this for you and your marriage.
What would I do? Extricate myself from this whole situation. You can feel as strongly as you like in regards to FIL's and BIL's choices.. but it will make no difference in the situation or to them. They make their own choices, as bad as they are. Spending so much energy on it, is basically, a waste.
I would continue speaking with your DH about parenting styles though, if you're concerned about huge differences. And it sounds like you guys might have vastly different styles.
Ok, so, ..
/waves hands around
ALL OF THIS
Also, does this asshole live here by me? Because I don't want to be on any road near him. Ever.