Post by glitzyglow on Nov 11, 2015 16:31:42 GMT -5
Cut and color! I LOVE it, thus my super AWish behavior, lol. I've cut over 15 inches off my hair since September! Pdq because these always self-destruct. *poof*
Post by glitzyglow on Nov 11, 2015 11:25:49 GMT -5
I would think that she would have to be the one to file and I don't think the police would come out to talk to her about her situation unless she called herself. Maybe text her some links about stalking and see if that helps her see that she is, indeed, being stalked and needs to immediately report him.
Post by glitzyglow on Nov 11, 2015 11:18:59 GMT -5
Doing whatever I want whenever I want. Cooking/eating without worrying about anyone else's preference. Spending my money on whatever I want without concern. Getting to go out or stay in every weekend...totally my choice. Trying new things that my exH didn't want to do. Making new friends without them having any idea who exH was and rebuilding my own identity as me. Laundry for 1!
Post by glitzyglow on Nov 10, 2015 21:37:56 GMT -5
And when I go to my parents' house, they have two dogs and my sisters have a dog each, so it's always a dog party at my parents' house when everyone gets together. I'm looking forward to Thanksgiving!
Post by glitzyglow on Nov 10, 2015 21:36:27 GMT -5
I love my cat soooo much, but I miss having a dog around. I won't get a dog until my cat passes away and I've settled down somewhere, so it may be years before I get one. Luckily my friends down the road have three dogs and they let me lay on their floor so I can be smothered by dogs, lol.
Today was pretty chill: exercise, shopping, Netflix. I feel like I need to clean now to even out my sloth-like status for the day, lol. I really should start planning Christmas gifts and my budget.
Ah, just got a text from a guy I started chatting with on Saturday from Tinder asking if I'm looking to hookup or for a boyfriend. I told him a relationship. Let's see what he writes back.
glitzyglow: Your makeup always looks so pretty! I'm jeally of your makeup skills!
Thanks! I love makeup and also spend an extraordinary amount of time watching youtube videos on makeup, which have helped my makeup skills, lol. The best part of waking up is putting on my makeup!
I'm listening to AA's book Modern Romance and so far I really like it. He has made my experience feel so much more normal (albeit still annoying). The data and studies are really interesting to me as well.
Anyone catch his show on Netflix called Master of None? I laughed so much at the opening awkward hook-up situation. It was awesome. I laughed throughout the episode, so I am looking forward to watching more of them.
I'm looking for a black turtleneck with 3/4 sleeves and that is thick material and is not ribbed. I am really busty, so lighter materials tend to make my bust area become visible since that area gets stretched out. Any ideas? I've looked up a some on J.Crew and Express, but both had reviewers saying how thin the material was. Thanks!
Today I went to the store and loaded up on groceries. I'm letting my phone charge right now, then I'm heading over to a park for a long (to me) run. I might clean later, and then I plan to do nothing but watch Game of Thrones (I just started) and Master of None.
I wouldn't because trust is huge to me and I wouldn't trust them to not to do it again. This is actually something I have been thinking about. A guy ghosted on me after a few months of dating. He texted me a few months later to apologize and he still texts me randomly. We are both single again and he wants to take me out on a date, I don't trust him though so I can't do it.
Dating someone who ghosted you is different from someone you went out with one or two times and ghosted, imo. I don't blame you for telling this guy no!
I was flipping through Tinder and saw a guy that ghosted me after I moved here. I was telling a friend I saw him on there and she asked me if I swiped yes. I was like, "Uh, no. He is the one that disappeared!" She kinda of shrugged and said maybe he was going through something or not ready or whatever. I pointed out that he could have said anything but chose not to, but her argument back was that it was just one date and he didn't owe me anything. She said, "What if you both swipe yes this time and then he apologized? Maybe he's embarrassed to reach out first. Maybe he said yes and you'll never know bc you said no." I kind of bristled and she said, "it's been over a year...maybe he changed?"
My friend loves to play devil's advocate, but she did get me thinking. Any thoughts? Would you swipe yes to someone who ghosted you previously after a significant amount of time passed?
Work: Very good! My hours just changed to an earlier shift and I spend the first hour of everyday looking at microfilms of old wills, lawsuit, etc. I love it. I also helped a man with his genealogy yesterday while at work and I am so happy that I get paid to do such things. I have some ideas for the upcoming year that I hope to make a reality.
Life: I saw my therapist 2x, but I don't think I'll see him again. He had a hard time remembering what I'd told him the week before and I don't feel like he gave me any real feedback this time as how to deal with some issues. I'm still having crazy dreams (sometimes violent) and a lot of dreams featuring exH, which is SO annoying because I am not thinking about him consciously. I made a goal for myself to run at least 1 mile everyday in November, and so far so good. In fact, I'm enjoying it. Getting a new cut and color next week, so I'm also happy about that...I feel so much more like "me" with shorter hair. I'm also going to a bonfire this weekend where I'm just acquaintances with everyone there, but I want to put myself out there more and this is a great opportunity to do so.
Love: Nada and nothing on the horizon. I was playing on Tinder earlier, though. I just can't quit you, Tinder!