My DS was resistant at first, as I dropped the morning and nap sessions, but I finally just told him there was no more milk and he completely accepted it to my great surprise. That was just a week ago at 2 years 8 months, I'm not sure it would have gone so well at 8 months ago.
My doctor suggested putting bandaids over my nipples and showing him that he couldn't nurse, that seemed a little weird to me but I was planning on trying it if he put up a stink since I was 1000% ready to be done.
Do you mean beauty control? My aunt used to sell it, the eye shadow was pretty good. I also liked the men's all in one body wash/shampoo for my H. Its been several years since I've used it though.
The one my cousin sells is beauty counter, but maybe they are the same? all natual stuff.
That sounds different than what my aunt sold, it was pretty standard cosmetics. So I guess my response was totally unhelpful, lol.
Do you mean beauty control? My aunt used to sell it, the eye shadow was pretty good. I also liked the men's all in one body wash/shampoo for my H. Its been several years since I've used it though.
I should have mentioned, when I tell him I don't like the comments, he usually gets very defensive, and last time seemed angry. It doesn't seem like he is going to stop.
I have had it with my mom's husband's racist comments, and need advice about how to proceed. About every other time we see him, he makes a totally inappropriate comment. The last time he said, regarding the lack of white people at a local outlet mall, "sometimes you just want to see some friendlies." I have made it very clear I don't like the comments, and specifically called out the last one as racist. He has been married to my mom for about 4 years and she always supports and stands by him. Aside from the racism, I just don't like the guy, I get a bad gut feeling and we never leave DS alone with him. He's a Ted Cruz supporter, and I would not be at all surprised if he votes for Donald Trump (possibly irrelevant to this, but both are totally opposite from my views). This situation has seriously affected my relationship with my mom as well, for a number of reasons, which sucks.
So, I really don't care to spend any time with him again. I will see him tomorrow for my nieces birthday party, but plan to avoid him as much as possible. My mom has invited us over for Easter, and I'm struggling with how to respond. I would like to just ban him from our house and decline all invites, but I also want to avoid hurting my mom as much as possible. No matter what he will be at larger family functions. Advice??
UPDATE: I was planning on talking to my mom about everything in a week or so, after I had a chance to speak with an EAP counselor, but she ended up calling me yesterday to ask why I hate her H, and I laid it all on the table. She thought I was very cold to him at my nieces party, which is probably true. Bottom line is that she doesn't think either one of them is racist, but admitted to some very ugly beliefs (race and general appearance related), and clearly has no desire to change. For now we are going to limit our time with both of them to group events, and I'm keeping my appointment with the counselor just to talk through everything. Not much of an update, but I've definitely learned that my mom will choose her H over me and DS.
I work an 80% schedule, with Wednesdays off. Its ideal for me because it means we only have to pay for 3 days of daycare, since my H works 4-10s. My employer offers a good deal of flexibility generally, so getting it approved wasn't an issue. I really struggled when I first returned from leave, and I think I'm actually as productive now at PT as I was at FT before - more focused and motivated.
When you make your proposal, just be sure to include how the company would benefit from your new schedule. In my case, I would have found a new job with a shorter commute if I wasn't approved go PT, but I didn't end up needing to mention that at all.
I just bought Lego Jurassic Park for my H for Valentine's day, so we could play together and it's pretty fun! I'm not a gamer at all. When I was checking out the best games for couples, Lego and Diablo came up most frequently.
I had mine done in my mid-20's. Nobody even noticed and if they did, they never said anything to me. I have no regrets other than I wish I had been able to do it sooner!
Same. I didn't even tell my in-laws. It actually looks like the nose I was supposed to be born with if that makes sense, not sculpted at all, so I honestly don't think people noticed.
Monday was my first official day of my "funemployment" adventure. Last Friday was my last day at my job. It was a really hostile work environment and I didn't realize how much it was impacting me. I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off me. Even J has noticed a difference. It's been great being home and getting things done during the week when it's not so busy. Plus every night this week I've made dinner, and not just a quick 20 minute heat up! I'm applying for jobs but also enjoying my time off.
Last month my doctor ran some more tests for my blood sugar levels. Turns out I'm not Type 2 diabetic, I'm actually Type 1. Normally T1 is for children but there are a growing number of people that get it in adulthood. It's called LADA or latent autoimmune diabetes in adults. I've started on insulin and can't believe how much that has impacted me. My numbers are leveling out and I feel already a lot better. It's been a huge adjustment in such a short time but I've been managing.
So that's what's up with me. If anyone knows of any HR positions available, let me know.
My work (downtown Seattle) is hiring a campus recruiter, let me know if you're interested and I can PM you the posting.
Hi there! I mainly stay on parenting board but need help starting to apply and get back to work. I've been staying at home since my oldest was born 4 1/2 years ago. Filling out applications online it asks current position and pay, duties, etc. should I actually fill this part in? Feels awkward and don't know how to phrase things...any advice or tips?
I hate online applications. You should just put NA or leave it blank, and address your break in employment in your cover letter. Good luck!!
We are in the process of this too, through the legal benefit offered by my job. I think the package we are doing would normally be $1600, and includes the wills etc and also a revocable trust.
What would they need to do to move to the next level/get promoted? Is there anything they have shown interest in that could be used as a development opportunity? Thinking about those questions might help.
Totally normal. It does get better, but takes time. I cried in the shower on a semi regular basis until my son was born, over two years after my first MC. I still think about it often. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Hugs.
7costanza, that one looks a lot different than the Kidco one we have. Does it have a latch type mechanism and then you just swing it open? Ours you have to lift up and over this hook thing, and I don't know if ours is faulty or what, but it clangs so loudly every time we try to lift it out of the hook.
You have to lift it up and over the hook/bracket. Its kind of hard to tell from the pictures, but it looks almost identical to the one linked above, but doesn't have the exposed metal on the ends. I couldn't find a good picture of the closing mechanism, so that piece may be different, although it sounds very similar. Maybe Kidco would send you a new hook?
I was going to recommend ours, but then realized it's a kidco. I don't find it loud or clunky at all though, it's the top of stairs angle mount safeway gate.
How scary! Does your employer have an EAP? Or sometimes EAPs also cover family members so if a sibling, parent or cousin has one you could call them as well. I'm so glad you made it out ok!